August 15, 2009

love and life


On this day, seventeen years ago... I awoke with anticipation of a fairy tale day, and no less than a thousand dreams in my heart. Dreams of all of the tomorrows in my life, and what they might bring... growing old with my sweetheart. I was a girl headed towards her wedding day with beautifully tinted rose-colored glasses perched on her nose... seeing the bountiful celebrations that life would surely unfold. But what I didn't see was all of the life that would happen between the celebrations...

The swollen ankles and high blood pressure that my pregnancies would bring... and the way he would seemingly hold our life together doing dishes, serving dinner and washing clothes on top of his work hours when the doctor ordered bed rest. (Seems he may have set a pace for himself as he has continued lending his loving hands to those tasks still today.)

The moments of great sorrow... eyes, loss, health. The moments that would cause pain to our hearts and bring us to our knees. In prayer. Together.

The afternoons when the stress of life would wrapped itself around my heart and an easy breath would be a luxury... and the arms that could somehow ease the anxieties just by pulling me in and holding me close to his beating heart.

Nights when his methods would made me chuckle, as he, with the kids, would be sprawled across the couch watching another episode of Cops, learning what getting into trouble really was. (But perhaps there is no more vivid way to share the real consequences of bad behavior than to share the examples in living color.)

The screeches of laughter that would bounce off the walls that we would call home... as yet another penguin or kitty cat was taken hostage at bedtime. And the way the serene images of what bedtime should be would turn into mayhem.

If that girl had removed her rose-colored glasses, racing across North Scituate as the sun was dawning on her big day... she might have thought about the homework... the dirty socks on the floor... the heavy hearts... the tears... the crumbs scattered across the counter... the bright faces that would someday wiggle in the pew. But she would have raced just the same. Towards life... and all that it might bring. Because the lessons life has to offer... and the beautiful mess that life can be, and is on a daily basis... those were treasures for another day. Treasures to unearth with your Love by your side, as year after year the love grows just a little deeper... into something that a little girl of just twenty could have never imagined.

8 comments :

Busy Bee Suz said...

This is just beautiful. I am so happy for all your joy in life...even if you had to go through bits of pain. Happy anniversary to you both.

togetherforgood said...

This is beautiful. Happy anniversary. :)

Kelli said...

You are so right!! If we only knew...

Mary Lou said...

As a Wedding Photographer I am so glad I can capture the joy a Bride and Groom have on their wedding day. It is the threshold of their life together and what better way to start than with the ultimate joy a wedding brings. This allows us to accept and handle what lies ahead. Have a beautiful day and take out your pictures and enjoy the memories of the beginning of your beautiful life. My Father always told me that marriage is like driving through the mountains, up and down but over the peak is God's Beauty for us to share!

Life with Kaishon said...

Oh. So. Beautiful. Take my breath away beautiful!

Shell in your Pocket said...

How wonderful and true...it's amazing what you love in your husband years gone by that you never thought you would love!
sandy toe

Ruby Red Slippers said...

Beautifully written-and so true!
Happy anniversary! 17 is HUGE :)

jenn said...

Happy Anniversary!! your post is beautiful!

Back to Top